Choosing a surgeon for an intimate wellness procedure is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make. Your choice impacts your safety, confidence, and long-term satisfaction. The right provider should not only possess exceptional surgical skill but also uphold the highest standards of trust, ethics, and patient care.
To help you make an informed decision, here are ten essential questions to ask during your consultation. These questions will help you identify a highly qualified, specialized surgeon—such as Dr. Wesley Anne Brady, the only female cosmetic gynecologist in Dallas—who can provide professional, compassionate, and confidential care.
Part I: Vetting Expertise and Credentials (The E-E-A-T Check)
The first step in selecting a cosmetic gynecologist is verifying their education, experience, and credentials.
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Are you board-certified by a board recognized by the American Board of Medical Specialties (ABMS)?
This is the most critical question to ask. Some physicians may claim to be “board-certified” or a “cosmetic surgeon,” but not all certifications are recognized by the ABMS. To ensure you’re choosing a qualified provider, confirm that their certification is from an ABMS-recognized board—such as the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology (ABOG). This ensures your surgeon has met rigorous medical standards.
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How is your training relevant to the procedure I’m considering?
If you’re considering procedures such as vaginoplasty, labiaplasty, or perineoplasty, it’s crucial that your surgeon has in-depth knowledge of female pelvic anatomy, including the muscles and tissues. A board-certified gynecologic surgeon is uniquely equipped with this expertise, ensuring both safety and precision in functional and aesthetic outcomes.
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How long have you been performing these procedures?
Experience matters. Ask how long your surgeon has specifically performed cosmetic gynecology procedures. A provider with years of focused experience is more likely to have refined surgical techniques and an understanding of variations in anatomy and healing.
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How many of these procedures do you perform each year?
Volume reflects expertise. A surgeon who performs dozens or even hundreds of intimate procedures annually typically has stronger proficiency and consistency compared to one who only performs a few.
Part II: Safety, Recovery, and Outcomes (The Trust Check)
Once you’ve verified a surgeon’s credentials, focus on safety protocols and recovery expectations.
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What is the recovery timeline, and when can I safely resume normal activities?
This question ensures you can plan realistically. For most intimate procedures, such as labiaplasty or vaginoplasty, patients typically return to light activity or office work within a few days. However, strenuous exercise, heavy lifting, and sexual intimacy should be avoided for approximately 4–6 weeks or until your surgeon gives clearance.
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What are the potential risks, and how are they managed?
An ethical surgeon will always discuss potential risks honestly. These may include:
- Infection or bleeding
- Scarring or unsatisfactory aesthetic results
- Temporary changes in sensation
- Painful intercourse (dyspareunia)
Your surgeon should clearly explain preventive measures, postoperative care, and how complications would be managed if they occur.
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What follow-up care is included after surgery?
Outstanding care doesn’t end in the operating room. Ask how follow-up visits are structured, whether after-hours support is available, and how the practice ensures proper healing. A thorough aftercare plan demonstrates a strong commitment to your safety and comfort.
Part III: Logistics and Ethical Candidacy (The Decision Check)
These final questions help you assess timing, cost, and your emotional readiness for surgery.
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Should I wait until after having children to undergo a procedure like vaginoplasty?
If you plan to have children in the future, your surgeon may recommend waiting before pursuing muscle-tightening procedures such as vaginoplasty. Future vaginal deliveries can potentially affect your surgical results. Honest discussion ensures you make a decision that supports both your long-term health and goals.
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How much does the procedure cost, and does insurance cover any portion?
Most cosmetic gynecology procedures are elective and not covered by insurance. However, partial coverage may apply if the surgery addresses a functional concern, such as discomfort caused by excess tissue. Request a detailed written estimate that includes all fees, financing options, and payment policies.
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How do you help ensure patients have realistic expectations?
An ethical cosmetic gynecologist prioritizes both your physical and emotional well-being. They should help you understand what the procedure can and cannot achieve, and screen for issues such as body dysmorphic disorder (BDD)when appropriate. This holistic approach ensures satisfaction and emotional health post-surgery.
Why Choosing Dallas’s Only Female Specialist Matters
When it comes to intimate wellness, comfort and trust are just as important as technical expertise.
Dr. Wesley Anne Brady is Dallas’s only female cosmetic gynecologist, specializing exclusively in sexual health and cosmetic gynecology. Her experience as a board-certified gynecologic surgeon provides an unparalleled understanding of female anatomy, while her compassionate, patient-centered approach ensures women feel heard, respected, and empowered.
Patients often describe the experience at Women’s Wellness Institute of Dallas as professional, reassuring, and supportive—a space where sensitive conversations feel safe and judgment-free.
If you’re ready to begin your journey toward renewed confidence and comfort, schedule a private consultation with Dr. Wesley Anne Brady today.
Disclaimer: This information is for educational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. Individual results and recovery experiences may vary. Always consult your physician for personalized guidance.